where can add more like friend or penpal

how i can put more that looking for man or woman i want put more like friend and penpal so where i can add that?

You can edit that field and add to it; /administration/fields.php, click on looking for item, then click the advance tab, then click on the link "sex"; the tooltip will say "add values".  Add the values you wish to be included.

I do that before but i see too that add there who you are man or woman that fienrd and penpal coming there too and no need coming there that

Then you can add a separate field.  Are you wanting to hide one field based on if you are a man or a woman?  I guess if you are not going to have gays on your site, then you might not want man to appear in the "looking for" if the member is a man.  If so, I don't have an answer for you.

No my site is dating site na no gay or lesbian site, ordinary site but i want put more
options there no only looking for man or woman i want put pen pall and friend too.

I am not following you.  Enter what you want to do in your native language and I will see if google translate can help me to understand.

Then edit LookingFor field (instead of Sex)? I've inserted dozens of others but forgot about a penpal, lol.