Need traffic for an adult site asap , please help

Hi my adult site is nearly dead , tumble weed is rolling past it and not stopping , does anyone have any tips or tricks on how to get people onto my site , i dont want fake hits , i want real members that like adult content. many thanks. ps is there any huge massive forums that take links or dump sites or anything i just need feet on the ground asap .

 You should have a look at my posts and how I stay on the top ten...

Usually it's just simple keywords, good content which changes, and a good URL.

This is Bing and Yahoo today, I'm number one for my niche on both search engines. "Gay Men Online."

http://www.boonex.com/forums/topic/How-close-to-top-are-you-on-google-yahoo-bing-and-yandex-.htm

http://www.boonex.com/forums/topic/How-close-to-top-are-you-on-google-yahoo-bing-and-yandex-.2.htm

I have lost my rank on Google two days ago when I changed my index page some and the "title" of the site. I have done this in the past to get re-indexed, it will take about a week and I get back on the top ten list on Google as well.

http://www.boonex.com/forums/topic/How-close-to-top-are-you-on-google-yahoo-bing-and-yandex-.2.htm#221187

Thats great thanks , any other tips please , what keywords would be good for an adult dating swingers site . plus my title says mysite > 100% free adult dating

 That is not going to make a difference..

Did you submit your sitemap to Google Tools?

How I got my keywords? My competition like "gay.com," I looked at their page source and copied the keywords, and went to all the others in my niche and did the same. Made my own list.

I have a Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/gaymenonlinenetwork

Using my URL again and promoting post, no more than $10US to get about 2,000 promoted post. If your not familiar how to do this I can elaborate more if needed.

These are my keywords..

 That is not going to make a difference..

Did you submit your sitemap to Google Tools?

How I got my keywords? My competition like "gay.com," I looked at their page source and copied the keywords, and went to all the others in my niche and did the same. Made my own list.

I have a Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/gaymenonlinenetwork

Using my URL again and promoting post, no more than $10US to get about 2,000 promoted post. If your not familiar how to do this I can elaborate more if needed.

These are my keywords..

meet gaymen,online,gaychat,gay,men,gay profiles,gay chat,gay videos,porn,men,porn,dating,chat,pictures,avatar,news,events,gay personals,online dating, homo , homosexual, homo sexual,gay guys,International,black man, gay pride, gratis,group,web cam, chat rooms,dating, gay chat,New York City, Los Angeles,Toronto, London,Philadelphia,Miami, Chicago,Montreal,Milan,Rome, Denver,Washington D.C.,Atlanta,Seattle,Vancouver,San Diego,England,Florida,Baltimore,NYC,San Francisco,Bay Area,Boston, Berlin, Fort Lauderdale

 This may have been overlooked.

An important issue, any changes you make to your index or title, Google drops you like a hot potato..

It takes about five days to come back.. 

were did you put your keywords in advanced , these are my keywords. adult social network, swingers, sex chat, adult sex, adult dating, sex dating, adult personals, free adult websites, uk dogging, swingers clubs, free xxx sites, hookup sites, people search, adult friend finder, free adult dating websites, fab swingers, topix adult dating sites,

plus how do you find the keywords of other sites.

plus do you use StumbleUpon or tumblr or reddit , i cant get my head round them

should i put a space after the comma in the Homepage meta-keywords: section.

my site description is

Find UK local sex, swingers, adult dating, sex friends, no strings sex, casual dating, one night stands and sex chat at mywebsite.co.uk.

thanks mate for spending the time to reply , many thanks mate

 anytime 

ps your template looks nice , are you on shared or have you got your own server , your site loads fast

Hello, We provide Dolphin Hosting (on powerful optimized servers (very fast!) and assistance with Dolphin Web Projects whether it's just small jobs or full project management!

We  can help you with SEO optimization, real quality traffic that are interested in what you offer (with unique quality content and using various tactics we can attract real unique visitors looking for sites like yours) and just about everything else Dolphin related ...

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Regards, Josh

 My server is a VPS at myhosting.com, $53.50 a month..

10 Virtual Processors

4 GB Ram

The load speed is a top priority for indexing as well, my page loads on average;

3.87 seconds to load page

878KB index page size

I've had lot's of outside help as well.

• Denre, Thanks D!

1. Geo Locator, this module has totally changed my site, landing on the index page you see your local map, showing members in your region, this is a really cool feature! [edit] What does that do? It auto fills the join form info. Couple, Nickname, FirstName, LastName, Pass, Email, Sex, DOB, and TOS tick.. that is all. That way I only require a few fields to get new members to join. This module also fills in the country, city and zip in all forms on my site where needed.   
2. Bot Stopper, this module totally prevents all bots, and human spammers cold in their tracks!! Read the description for more on how this one works, and it has build-in functionality against TOR networks! Humans fill out a form in a slow "human" speed, with this module, it has a "timer" like function, bots fill out forms instantly, once this is detected that IP is added to the IP blocking section automatically. If someone tries to enter site links, certain words, they get a captcha box, if failed they get banned. Love it!!
3. Design suggestions for minimal index page.

• Prashank25, Thanks P

1. Setup of my Xcache to work with Dolphin, this was part of my speed up.
2. Minor tweaks sometimes.  

Following this post and doing all suggestions to my server..

http://www.boonex.com/n/500_Speed_Improvement_of_Dolphin_

And this is what you get doing the server changes..

Site optimization

• PHP:
  • PHP accelerator = XCache - OK
  • PHP setup = apache2handler - OK
• MySQL:
  • key_buffer_size = 67108864 - OK
  • query_cache_limit = 1048576 - OK
  • query_cache_size = 33554432 - OK
  • query_cache_type = ON - OK
  • max_heap_table_size = 268435456 - OK
  • tmp_table_size = 268435456 - OK
  • thread_cache_size = 128 - OK
• Web-server:
  • User-side caching for static conten = click here to check it in Google Page Speed 
    If it is not enabled then please consider implement this optimization, since it improve perceived site speed and save the bandwidth, refer to this tutorial on how to do this. 
    To apply this optimization you need to have expires_module Apache module - OK
  • Server-side content compression = can be checked manually or in "Page Speed" tool build-in into browser. 
    If it is not enabled then please consider implement this optimization, since it improve perceived site speed and save the bandwidth, refer to this tutorial on how to do this. 
    To apply this optimization you need to have deflate_module Apache module - OK
• Dolphin:
  • DB cache = On (File based cache engine) - OK
  • Page blocks cache = On (XCache based cache engine) - OK
  • Member menu cache = On (XCache based cache engine) - OK
  • Templates Cache = On (XCache based cache engine) - OK
  • CSS files cache = On - OK
  • JS files cache = On - OK
  • Compression for CSS/JS cache = On - OK

What are your cache settings im having issues with loading times when signing in

 hold on..

 OK ImOverHere,

Since this was last updated, I could only find my site buried on pages 30- 50 deep on Google.

Today after Google re-indexed my site via "webmaster" tools, my position on Google is back on the top ten.

I asked if you submitted to Google Webmasters yet?

This is important to use.

Well, maybe I missed something, but usually it's not just simple keywords and good content, but 1000 more things... Especially to stay on the top of 100+ million pages in search result.

Google context ads driving people to the sites really good. They are only need to be adjusted properly.

First of all, site must be interesting for people and have some unique functionality. Not just 1901498174-th site on the Network.

Site must have some unique texts (not copied from other sites) and good content.

Google doesn't really look at meta keywords on your pages. Content, page titles and updates are the main things.

Meta description should be understandable and attractive for humans as well.

Some text titles on the site should be enclosed in <h1> or <h2> tags and\or bold font.

No tricks are recommended, such like a bunch of invisible keywords at the end of the pages, white font on white background. Blocking by Google is almost disaster for domain name future.

 True, the index page should be full of keywords for what your after, not talking about meta tags.

A good webmaster told me; "Google likes words over images, meaning your page intro on what to "do" on your site."

I change my default site links to include keywords as well as shown in this picture.

A wide spectrum search like "gay flash chat rooms," so you should change the links to include your sites keywords.

Make new pages as said with keywords in the titles. Using Deanos Tools, on those new pages you can create php blocks to grab (some) data for the pages.

I'm on the first page, last but still top ten for what my site is about.

 By the way, forgot to mention: titles parameters on your site images are also playing a huge role in SEO. 

What about creating usernames with big names such as adultfriendfinder or plentyofifish or putting the names in the meta tag section. someone said putting the big adult websites names would help.