I did a wide menu template a while back that allows you to add extra stuff via language keys. I wouldn't call it easy to manage though, because it takes a bit of work to add all the extra content via language keys.
The only reason I did it, was because a guy was selling a "Mega Menu" in the market for $200, The menu was available on Code Canyon for $5. It wasn't something a person could easily install... you had to get the author to do it. To the best of my knowledge, he never sold a $200 menu to anyone, and eventually removed the ripoff product.
http://houstonlively.com/?skin=grayscale2
It's not really what your looking for. My intent was to create a menu that site owners could use to convey important information to users about each top menu item. I never added language keys for everything... just the about and videos tab.
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