How to open video running, without pushing the button?

I open my videos Dolphin running on another page, as this YouTube video

<center><embed src="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/T4IEUgohIbA?fs=1&autoplay=1&amp;hl=pt_BR" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>

I do not know where to put "autoplay = 1 &" works the same as for q youtube.

<center><embed src="http://seuclip.com.br/flash/modules/global/app/holder_as3.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="480" height="400" allowScriptAccess="always" allowFullScreen="true" base="http://seuclip.com.br/flash/modules/video/" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" wmode="opaque" flashVars="url=http://seuclip.com.br/flash/XML.php&amp;module=video&amp;app=player&amp;id=3&amp;user=&amp;password="></embed></object>

Can anyone help me?

Thanks