How big is your community?

How many members do you guys have on your site?

Currently at one of my sites:-

35 Pending Members
6001 Sounds
9595 Verified Member
15 ecards
24534 Members
1822 Videos
11983 Youtubes
92909 Photos
2689 Hot or Not
544 Pages

Anybody experiencing any slowness to your sites or problems with databases with this much load?

It's not a load at all. It depends not on how many people you have in your DB, but mainly how many people you have online. And what hardware you have to deal with it.

I don't have any problems with 4 languages stored in my brain, because I can speak one at a time. But if I'll speak them all together, I'll have some problems.

Edit: it would be better to find somebody with 1M+ people in Dolphin database and ask him this question. :) 

I have never had 13K members online at anyone time BUT I have had times where there have been 200+ members throughout a day (30 signed in and active at anyone time) doing various things .... and at the same time 8K unique visitors looking at content and doing various things throughout the day, and my own server has not struggled one bit  ... It depends on your server setup, how well it's optimized and other factors.

I know of other webmasters with very little traffic and only one or two members online at anyone time and their setup struggles! 

 100% very true. 

On some of my sites I've had up to 200 visitors per day while being on regular hosting, no problems at all.

We have not officially launched our site, but have a few interested parties. Should have the official launch this week (hopefully). Looking at the other stats, I feel like a small fish in a big ocean.

 So..... 58,853 males, and only 4 females?  I won't be joining that site.

  HAHHAHAHAAAAAAAA THAT WAS THE FIRST THING I NOTICED!!... just gonna assume that this is another one of those very active gay sites,, not judging, to each their own.... ;)    ... I will not be getting into this pissing contest this year, but I have 2 very active sites that do very well running on 7.09  and last week started working on the newest on 7.1 that will probly trump all my others combined

ps josh answer your gmail please dude

 I emailed you back yesterday!! check your mail ...

oh shit, thanks man,, damn i hate spam folders,, how does google freaking know if i do or do not like spam?!?!!?,, even worse than that,, why is google sending mail from its own mailboxes to spam folders??

 I have only one site and it's my technical test area for my modules - http://boonexpert.com 

 Very funny.

You guys thought about gays in first place, which makes me think about something. You forgot to check "Active" field, which shows that there are only 7 active members. All other members are just test profiles. 

I love it when this subject raises its head.... every time.... "mine is bigger than yours" "yours sucks" "prove it".... LMAO... so funny.... Makes Dolphin worthwhile : )

 not gonna do,,  refuse to do it,, not taking the bait!

..... wasnt it 2012 that this topic ended with micheal challenging josh to a knife fight or something?

 OK..... so you have 58,850 test profiles. Why didn't you just say so?

 Nobody asked. The initial question was: "How many members do you guys have on your site?"

yep,, this is how these threads usually start lolllll

 LOL! no Comment...

boonexpert, what the your community URL? I want to have a look at it.

 That's OK.  There are quite a few folks around here that believe a profile is the same thing as a member.

 Yep :)