I may be incorrect as I am very new and still having issues troubleshooting and resolving my personal issues. However, it seems that the link from the button has to use a "_blank" tag and the button itself is < a href="http://bicolexpressions.com/forum/" class= "top_link" > < span class="down" > Forums < /span > minus the spaces of course. It seems that if you can search the button, you can find the action associated with it and change it to open in the same window?
Did that even make any sense? I am backtracking and "reverse-engineering" a lot as I am building and learning so it is actually easier right now for me to do it better than I can explain it ... but it seems if you find the button and the properties associated with it, it should not be too difficult to change,
I am shutting up and going for more coffee now ... but it really does make sense when I think about it ... just not when I try to explain it :">