Change video upload option in wall to embed

Hello,

Currently the only way to add videos to the wall is through regular upload, is there a way to change that to embed option?

I actually am working on a completely re designed wall at the moment.

Look at my site and tell me if that is what you want.

YES! that is exactly what I need! Can you please help me?!

 Have you seen how my wall works?

Currently I have 2 issues I am working out with it right now.

Along with 100 other projects so I HOPE to get it working to my satisfaction in the the next week or 2.